My ex boyfriend and I despite many efforts are just never going to be able to talk and be friends. We have tried on multiple occasions and we just can never seem to find a way to communicate. This is really frustrating and sad to me because I want it to work so bad but … Continue reading Have you heard of your 3 life loves?
I have spent sometime talking to friends lately about dating and the challenges that come along with it. To some people we probably seem like we should know how to do this but we are all still very young and for me at least I have never really dated anyone. I was with the same … Continue reading Your Most Powerful Relationship Tool
I am a really resilient soul and one that really does not like to feel like I am failing. If I start to feel that way I kick into overdrive and I am like "Oh Hell No" mode. Well after my last boyfriend and I broke up it was a reminder that I have no … Continue reading 6 Tips For Loving Yourself & Living A Happier Life When Single
I was rereading a book called QBQ, The Question Behind The Question by John Miller. I thought the content could be helpful to some of my leaders at work and was hoping to conduct a small workshop around the book. You see the whole premise of the book is on personal accountability and eliminate victim … Continue reading QBQ, Thanks John
Something I have been reflecting on a little bit today. Yeah I know even this early in the morning but I suppose you don't get to determine when you brain is like "Hey, we are going to think about this now." There are a lot of things I miss about my past and what is … Continue reading Missing The Past Is OK
For those of you that may not live in the state of Michigan or follow US College football the University of Michigan and Michigan State University football game was this past weekend. Anyway I had posted on my Facebook page asking who was going to Ann Arbor, MI (where University of Michigan is) to tailgate. … Continue reading 26 for 24
I think I have talked about this before in other posts but if I haven't I have had a huge desire to have a graduate degree from the day I graduate undergrad. You see for me in a lot of ways it is a self fulfillment thing. It's a way to show myself I can … Continue reading The PhD Adventure
The last couple weeks have been a tilt a whirl of emotion for me as my ex boyfriend and I tried to iron out what was going to happen with us. As you know from my previous post, When You Love Someone, Now I Get It, you know that it is just not going to work … Continue reading Being Selfish; The Bucket Analogy
I was talking to my counselor the other day particularly about one relationship I was struggling with. After awhile of talking he final asked me "What need do they fulfill?" I had never even thought about that question or had never thought about our relationship in a way where they are actually giving me something … Continue reading What need do they fulfill?
This is something that I have found really interesting since moving from being predominately in the straight culture to the gay culture. Obviously I was always interested in the gay culture. Thus, I can not exactly use my own self experience to justify what I am talking about here because clearly as my friends would … Continue reading Straight Men Love The Gay Culture; Secretively